The Hope That Is In You

Some of my thoughts about preparing for my funeral.

“Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you

to give the reason for the hope that you have.” 1^st Peter 3:15

This worksheet is a place for you to share with your church and family thoughts and ideas about your funeral service. The things you write here will be received as a wonderful gift by your family and those who will make arrangements for your memorial service. When you complete this form, leave it with your other important papers. Also, please make a copy and give it to one of the pastors and it will be placed in your file until it is needed.

Your name: _________________________

The date you prepared this form: ______________________________

1. What thought would you like people to have clearly in mind as they leave your memorial service?

2a. What are some favorite or meaningful scripture passages or Bible stories or themes:

2b. Did you have a Confirmation verse?

2c. If you had to pick only one verse to be read at your service, which one would it be, and why?

3a. What are some of your favorite hymns?

3b. If only one hymn or song was sung at your service, which one would it be and why?

4. What are some of the highlights from your “God Story,” that is, the ways you’ve seen God at work in your life and in the lives of those around you and in the world around you. This can include memories and stories connected to your baptism and your confirmation.

5. What would you write on your grave marker?

6. What would you want to make sure was included in your obituary?

7. Do you want to be buried or cremated?

8. Where would you like to be buried or have your ashes placed?

9. Do you desire that Holy Communion be celebrated at your funeral?

10. Do you understand the use of the Pall as a symbol of your baptism?

11. Are there people you would like to serve as pall bearers?